|Are You Assertive Enough? Too Assertive? A Self-Assesment
||Alas, squeaky wheels get the grease but not if you’re too squeaky.
|Understanding and Using the Thoughts and Feelings After Divorce
||Divorce statistics tend to obscure the emotional impact of divorce. Whether a divorce is chosen, imposed, contested, litigated or mediated, divorce is difficult. What often adds to the difficulty even after a divorce is finalized are lingering thoughts and feelings that bewilder, disturb, preoccupy and interfere with moving forward in...
|3 Movies That Use The 10% Myth
||Lucy, which debuts July 25, follows the protagonist (Scarlett Johansson) who – through the marvels of modern science – gains access to much more of her brain’s capacity, beyond the “normal 10%.” Subsequently, as she gains access towards 100% of her brain capacity, she becomes more and more powerful, and “interesting things...
|Encouraging Males to Embrace Safe, Platonic Touch
||Touch. It’s a delicate subject. I just read an article that discussed the idea of gentle, platonic touch between men. It made the case that men are often isolated from touch at an early age by both parents, and that the lack of gentle, platonic touch is a killer. The...
|Magnetic Resonance Imaging study finds brain abnormalities in regular marijuana users
||People who regularly use marijuana show significant abnormalities in areas of the brain associated with motivation and emotion, a team of Swiss researchers has found. The scientists discovered changes in the volume of gray matter — the tissue containing brain cells — in regular marijuana users compared with occasional ones. Marijuana, the most commonly used [...]The post Magnetic Resonance Imaging study finds brain abnormalities in regular marijuana users appeared first on PsyPost.
|Prisoner’s Dilemma study shows youth don’t follow a predictable cooperative strategy
||Young people between the ages of ten and sixteen demonstrate more fickle behaviour when it comes to cooperating, unlike other age groups. People over the age of 66 demonstrated the most cooperative behaviour. These are the conclusions of a research paper by scientists from the University of Barcelona (UB), the Carlos III University of Madrid [...]The post Prisoner’s Dilemma study shows youth don’t follow a predictable cooperative strategy appeared first on PsyPost.
|Genetic risk for autism stems mostly from common genes
||Using new statistical tools, Carnegie Mellon University’s Kathryn Roeder has led an international team of researchers to discover that most of the genetic risk for autism comes from versions of genes that are common in the population rather than from rare variants or spontaneous glitches. Published in the July 20 issue of the journal “Nature [...]The post Genetic risk for autism stems mostly from common genes appeared first on PsyPost.
|8 Ways to Live With a Chronic Illness
||“Life isn’t about waiting for the storm to pass…It’s about learning to dance in the rain,” wrote Vivian Greene. “Courage doesn’t always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, ‘I will try again tomorrow,’” wrote Mary Anne Radmacher. These are two of my...
|Car Dealers Use the "Defense in Depth" Strategy to Wear You Down
At one point or another, most people will have to be in some kind of negotiation for a big ticket item. The most notorious of these negotiations is the car. Car salesmen have become famous for their underhanded negotiation tactics. There is an actual name for one strategy that car dealerships (and other unscrupulous types) use. It's called defense in depth....
|Your Body Is Not The Enemy
||In our culture there is a prevailing belief that if we can’t get our bodies to look a certain way, to lose weight, to fit into an old pair of jeans, then they’re the enemy. They’re an enemy we have to subdue, manipulate and pound into submission. An enemy we...
|Cyberloafing at Work Makes You More Productive
||Surfing the web at work for leisure makes you 9% more productive, a new study finds.Dr Jeremy Dean is a psychologist and author of PsyBlog. His latest book is
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Buy Less Insurance
||“Tat tvam asi” is an ancient Vedic mantra which means: “You are that” or “That you are.” What does it mean? It means that Universe (Reality) is not inter-personal but intra-personal. What does that mean? It means that when you look “outside” you are looking “inside.” What does that mean?...
|So Very Happy
||We’re almost there! Just $50 more dollars to go till we reach our goal of $600 and we’ll be able to become tax exempt. We’ve already hit well over what we needed for the Articles of Incorporation and now we’re working on the tax exempt, 501(c)3 part of it all....
|How to Be More Assertive at Work
||We’ve all had days or weeks or months at our jobs where we feel like we’re being taken advantage of. You know the feeling: if it doesn’t come in getting passed over for an opportunity, it comes at the hands of either your boss or coworkers not giving you the...
|My Childhood Made Me Do It!
||The good thing about having been raised badly is that it provides an excuse for the embarrassments of later years. Have you succumbed to addiction? The Adverse Childhood Experience Study demonstrates how susceptibility to alcoholism and drug abuse rises in near-lockstep with one’s burden of early hardships. Has sustaining relationships proved difficult? Data support a similar connection between numbers...
|The Surreal Fashion Photography of Miss Aniela
||Most of my limited experience of fashion photography has been the occasional magazine feature or ad, and the images typically seem to me mainly designed to document the clothing. The work of London-based fashion photographer Natalie Dybisz, who works under the name Miss Aniela, is much more complex and intriguing. Writer Sarah Bradley describes some of...
|Mindfulness for Mind-Blowing Sex: 5 Practices
||Electric shivers of euphoria ripple throughout her naked body. The summer breeze encircle the lovers, intensifying the deeply arousing sensation of the wetness on her nipples from his passionate kisses. She gazes into his yearning eyes, effortlessly accessing the opening to his soul and harnessing the power of their profound connection. The rhythm of their...
|For Borderlines, Opposite Action is Key to Healing
||A borderline recounts how she used DBT skills of DISTRACTION and OPPOSITE ACTION to manage her devastating breakup crisis.
|Leaving a Legacy Behind
||I recently saw “The Fault In Our Stars,” based on the novel by John Green. This heartbreaking film portrays two teenagers, Hazel Lancaster and Augustus Waters, who fall in love as they both battle cancer. Though I’m not interested in reviewing the film (quite frankly, it was a bit too...
|Five Ways to Make Someone Feel Special
||Loving gestures of appreciation make everyone feel good - the other person and you.